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 Khadijah bit Khowaylid, Mother of the Faithful

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مُساهمةموضوع: Khadijah bit Khowaylid, Mother of the Faithful    الإثنين يناير 14, 2013 9:55 pm

She was the first wife of the Prophet Mohammed - pbuh- and the first heart to be affected and to accept his call to Islam. She was Khadijah bint Khuwaylid. When she reached adolescence, she came to be known as Tahira (righteous, virtuous) due to her noble and sublime character.

(Ibn Hajar :Al-Isabah :8/60)

She was married but soon both her father and husband died, leaving her in charge of the trade. Khadijah became a business woman in her own right, know and respected throughout the Quraysh (the noblest tribe in Makkah; they were the keepers of the Ka'bah and the tribe that Khadijah & the Prophet came from) for her noble character, wealth and good manners.

She heard the Prophet's fair dealings and how he was acclaimed to be " al-amin" (the trustworthy) amongst the people, and so she asked if he could accompany her merchandise to its various destinations - he agreed.

At the age of twenty-five, the Prophet Mohammad -pbuh- accepted the proposal of Khadijah, his distant cousin, who was fifteen years his senior. They had six children: two sons, Qasim and 'Abdullah, both of whom died in infancy, and four daughters, Zaynab, Ruqayyah, Umm Kulthum, and Fatimah.

Fifteen years later, what do we find Khadijah saying when the Prophet -pbuh- came to her with his heart trembling after receiving the first Revelation? He informed her of the happening and said to her, "O Khadijah what has happened to me? I fear for myself?"She replied: "It can't be. Be happy. I swear by Allah that he will never humiliate you. By Allah, you join ties of relationship, you speak the truth, you bear people's burdens, you help the destitute, you entertain guests and you help the vicissitudes which affect the people.

" Narrated by Ayshah -mAbpwh- (Muslim :96/310)

(Imam an-Nawawi, who wrote the commentary on Sahih Muslim said that the scholars have explained Khadijah's statement by saying that she knew that Allah would never allow one who had been given such a generous character and noble manners by Him, to be affected by madness, since good manners is itself such a blessing from Allah.)

Look at her conviction in what the Prophet -pbuh- said. Pause for a moment and note her weighty words. She didn't doubt him, nor show the slightest hesitation towards the words he uttered. In fact she was his greatest source of comfort, the first to provide security for him and be sincere to him. He attested to the messengership of her husband and was the first to believe in him, and who could have known him better? After all, she had been married to him for fifteen years. She was convinced that it could only be one of such eloquent character who could be worthy of revelation from Allah and thus hers was the first heart to be moved, and to accept Islam.

However, her loyalty and assistance didn't culminate there. By accepting and supporting his call to the worship of Allah alone, Khadijah, a woman highly esteemed among the Quraysh, was now denouncing their way of life, and the Quraysh were a proud and affluent people; and Makkah was at the heart of trading and the home of the idols - much revered by the Quraysh. They were not going to stand back and allow a man to now come and preach a way of life alien to theirs, rejecting their beliefs and everything they stood for. And remember when Islam was first cultivated, the Muslims were small in number, and, in such a trying period, Khadijah remained alongside the Messenger of Allah in support whenever the Quraysh disclaimed him or contracted hostility towards him. She assisted him in preaching the words of Allah and hence witnessed the division between the people of faith (iman) and those of disbelief (kufr)..

This continued until her death on the eleventh of Ramadhan in the tenth year of the Prophethood - at the age of sixty-four. The Prophet -pbuh- would think of Khadijah often. Open up any book written on the life of the Prophet Muhammad -pbuh- , and you will not fail to find Khadijah bint Khuwaylid mentioned and evidences pertaining to her excellence. The Prophet -pbuh- said: "Sufficient for you, from the women of the worlds are, Maryam bint Ibrahim [the mother of Jesus], Khadijah bint Khuwaylid, Fatimah bint Muhammad [sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam] and 'Asiyah, the wife of Fir'awn (Pharoah)."
The sufficiency mentioned here means sufficient regarding obedience to Allah.

"The best of the women of Paradise are Khadeejah bint Khuwaylid, Faatimah bint Muhammad, Aasiyah bint Mazaahim the wife of Pharaoh, and Maryam bint ‘Imraan – may Allaah be pleased with them.”

(Narrated by Ahmad, 2663. Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami’, 1135)

Further proof of the Prophet's inherent love for Khadijah can be seen in 'A'ishah's statement: "I was not so jealous of any of the Prophet's wives as I was of Khadijah. I never saw her, but he frequently mentioned her and he would often kill a sheep, cut it in pieces and send them round among Khadijah's friends. I often said to him: 'It seems as if Khadijah was the only woman in the world!' And he replied: 'She was indeed a fine woman and I had children from her.' "

(Narrated by Al Bukhari p.104 no. 166)

So we have the perfect role models, and it is only through reading about them, that we can truly love them and love to be like them, and understand why they are happy occupants of Al-Jannah. And Jibril, 'alayhis-salam, came with the good news from Allah, saying to the Messenger, sallallahu 'alayhi wa sallam, "When she (Khadijah) comes, give her a greeting from her Lord and me, and give her the good news that in Jannah she will have a house of brilliant pearls, in which there will be no clamor or toil."

(Narrated by Al Bukhari p. 1297 no.168)

May Allah be pleased with her and grant us all ability to be like her.

Amen Amen Amen

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